Aside form the ECU/button stuff, if it's in good shape, grab the harness bracket attached to the driver side around the top of the rear shock. The stock elocker harness doesn't connect directly to the locker motor; it snakes down toward the axle and has another plug attached to that bracket. There's a short harness between that bracket and locker motor itself, which you will absolutely need. You could probably get by without the bracket but it makes organizing stuff down there a lot easier.
You can get the bracket/rear harness new from Toyota still, but they're not cheap, as is tradition. You might as well try and snag the button-to-bracket harness off the donor vehicle if you can, in case you don't actually have the harness, or yours is trashed for some reason.
Good luck on the swap!