the iridium plugs are not recommended for the V6 and that is why you cant find them listed anywhere...only the v8 has iridiums from the factory.
Changing spark plugs alone will not create a HUGE especially when the plugs that you are replcacing are fairly new to begin with.
That being said, I think the reson that I saw such a noticable difference with mysetup is that i had about 10K+ on my OEM setup which included both Denso and NGK plugs. Now that I have a set of the same plugs and upgraded ones at that, the engine seems stronger.
Who knows, i could have just bought the OEM NGK's and installed them to make a full set of those but when they are more expensive than the Upgraded IX's that I used, i didnt really see the point in that.