I used a 3/8 drive ratchet an extension and 5/8 deep well socket that would hold on to the plug so it could be pulled out once it was threaded out. Just took my time nice and easy and did not force any thing. You will have to remove the air filter and intake upto the throttle body also. One side has coils you will have to move the other side is just wires.
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