if u havent missed anything use a big screw driver or pry bar and just work it. If that doesnt work take some pics so we can see what you may have missed.
Did you remove the swaybar end link? What about the lower ball joint bolts?
I think you might need to use the bottle jack to lower the control arm. Also if you have been hitting, prying on it you might want to replace the strut once you do get it all taken apart. It would suck to go through all this get it put back together and realize you have damaged the strut and need to pull it all apart again to replace it. Today is a new day so if you tackle it again take a lot of pics and post them up. So many people on this board have installed the daystar kit that I'm sure will be able to chime in. I also have the daystar sitting in my garage and plan on putting it on so I'll be looking for what happens. Good luck.
If you can get enough room, you need to try to pull the bottom of the shock out and away from the vehicle. Once you remove those three nuts and the lower bolt on the shock (after taking out the bolts for the lower ball joint and removing the swaybar), you should be able to pry down the lca and pull the bottom of the shock out.
Another suggestion if the top is still stuck, try using the stock jack to apply force. Setup as shown in the pic, just be careful not to let things slip.
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But it looks like you are using the stock jack to apply force to the upper arm SO how does this help getting the strut to pull out if it is stuck?