what a pandora's box...
thanks for the discussion, everything has been very insightful.
from what I have gleemed/understood, I'm going to do the following...
new front links for the rear (cause of lift)
then for the front I'm thinking two ways...
a) look into 'longer' links for front (2nd gen is longer)
OR
b) create my own q-disco front link... if price is compatible to new 'autozone' prices
I'm certain I'll keep both sway bar's, arguments make sense both directions... but I am on road mostly right now... life prohibits me from more than 10% off road right now.
in the future I know q-disco's are planned front and rear.