Ok, getting closer now. I sold the tires that came on those TRD rims to my mom for $200. They will be going on her FJ real soon now. They had more life in them than originally thought, and they are going to be a summer tire for her.
I stopped at the shop that is going to build my headers and he is swamped. He doesn't want to build headers from scratch now, but we went over options and decided that I am going to order a set of Tundra headers for the VVT-i motor and he will make them fit. He is also going to make me a custom Y-pipe and bend my tailpipe so it comes out the side and exhaust won't come in the cabin with back window cracked open. He already knew about the spark plug defouler trick to fool the ecu that there won't be any Cats anymore, so that was nice to not have to explain. He wanted to put it on his Dyno and tune it some, but being all wheel drive he can't get it up there.

Sucks. So he will be doing the exhaust middle of July for me. Gives me time to put on my Body Lift, tires and new brakes though. He wants the B.L on first to give some extra room which is cool with me.