I was watching a couple of install videos, and it all looks very simple, except the removal of the stock grill piece (with Toyota emblem). It looks like you have to put a fair bit of force on it AND in push/pull at the correct angles to get it to pop out. This seems like the kind of thing that can turn a simple, satisfying job, into a stressful afternoon, and potentially a broken front trim piece that is supposed to be reused. I have a history of breaking things because I think, "just a little more pressure will do it".
Any tips, or a video that shows it better?
Its actually not as hard as it seems, there is a little tab that you have to feel for near where the headlight and upper grill meet. You lift up on that tab and it would pop out. Its hard to get a camera in there to show you, cuz its a tight squeeze. Once you find it, the grill will release and you can pull it forward. Good luck