Will the WDH that is built into my V8 help in this application.
Absolutely! Very noticeable towing with the 4th gen with the wdh compared to towing the same trailer (uhaul 6x12) with a third gen that had a more simplistic hitch that didn't bolt so far forward on the frame. Minimal sag noticed on the 4th gen with the wdh.
Wow. Easy. The hitch is in fact a "receiver hitch". The only alternative is a bumper that has a ball that mounts on it directly, and I haven't seen too many 4runners with that setup since the 80s.
No need to be so bent out of shape. Yes, it's clear that there is a difference between a "hitch" and weight distribution system that slides into the "receiver" hitch.
Point is there is a big difference between the hitches on the v8 and v6 4runners. And in fact a few of the v8s had the lighter rated hitch system that would max out at 500/5,000 tongue/total tow weight. The point being made above is even with or without the weight distribution system you describe, the 4th gen v8 hitch rated for 730/7300 is a superior design to many standard receiver hitches. Fact is Toyota certifies the tongue weight up to 1095 lbs when you have the incremental weight distributing hardware attached.
Are you sure you can put 1095 lbs of tongue weight on a factory V8 receiver when you use a WDH? That seems FAR higher than anything I've seen.
BTW - there are tons of aftermarket receivers out there that allow the use of a WDH. I've got a Hidden Hitch one on my V6.
I'm positive. I'd be happy to upload a picture of the sticker on my factory hitch if you seriously want to see it.
The weight distributing system you speak of is all but universal from what I recall when using one. I don't think there is anything too specific about the hitch itself that would prevent you from using one. The ones I have seen use a special tongue that slides into the receiver hitch, off of which the arms connect to the trailer and then you crank to add tension. Would I bother with one myself? No. Not unless I was pulling something like a high profile lengthy camping trailer or something similar that would induce sway and become unruly behind me. Wouldn't blame anyone for using it on a jet ski if that is their preference.