Third vote for Air Bags!
I third this! The recommendation for air-bags.
Similar to you, I planned for 400lb travel-trailer tongue weight when I did my lift, and I added Firestone air-bags at the same time.
Summary of installation:
-undo axle-stuff so it can droop a lot. I was doing this anyway, with my lift. Typically shocks and hoses, but don't rush and check, check, check.
-push down maybe a bit more, let the springs fall out
-insert the airbag
-route the air-hose. I opted to drop mine down through a hole in the upper-spring-seat, then plug it into the airbag. The Shrader valves for filling are separate / independent, located on the rear bumper just inside the tailgate.
I run about 5.5 psi for everyday driving and mid-level offroading, and never notice the 'bags. For my utility trailer (1200 lbs) I leave them at this 5.5psi. I will find out how my travel-trailer responds in a week or two, where I plan to run the 'bags at around 20psi.
Since they're independent, I can also compensate for side-to-side weight differences.
Some offroaders like to join the 'bags together, specifically to defeat the anti-sway action that my independent arrangement provides. Should I wish to do this, I would simply make a short 'U'-shaped hose with Shrader-coupler on each end and "short" my fill-valves together. But I don't plan to...