my 3 cents...shop until you cant stomach it anymore for a used deal...use all of the searches you can find, and then...IF you cant find exactly what you want, go new.
i was in the same boat a yr ago. Searching for 4Rnrs and GXs at every turn. at work, when the boss wasnt looking, at home, causing the woman that i am related to by marriage to comment at my psychosis. I looked and looked. I didnt want to drop 40-large, but was willing if i had to. 4th gens, 1st-5th gens and 2nd-5th gens...all were similarly priced, with varying mileage.
In the end, i ended up on two 5th gens, both 2012s with mileage in the 50s and 60s, and I was prepped to go test drive and buy whichever made me the best deal. And then the heavens opened, the angels sang, and what appeared on my computer screen; a 2014 SR5 w/ 20K miles on the clocks and just enough to tempt me, for the same $$ as either of the 2012s. After some back and forth with the dealer online and over the phone, and a visit the day before i was suppose to see both 2012s, BOOM, i had myself a 2014 to call my own.
Buying a car isnt easy, not when you know what you want. but if you take a few days/weeks and treat it like heroin-stay addicted to it day and night, im sure you'll find what you want.
and IF you dont, then you know that option of buying NEW is there...and usually is a much easier search, relatively speaking.
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