Derek,
I have the very same wheels , Moda R7 on my 97 4runner, I like them alot, polished and not too bling.
BTW, I personally think 18's look better on 3rd gen, they fit and does not take away from the lines of the rig.
I see 20's on these size rigs and they just take the look away from the vehicle.
I like my mods to nicely blend with the vehicles.
My .02.
But , I think the wheels themselves look good.