I'm in NC as well, and pretty much have found myself in a similar situation over the last couple of days. I'm only showing a P1445 now "stuck closed", and haven't hit the limp mode threshold yet. I don't think I've even encountered the vacuum suck sound at startup that I've seen and heard on the youtubes. '05 V8, just a shade over 164K.
I'm just starting to research these bypass kits/ I can't imagine they are legal in NC, and I also can't imagine they'll be detected if your dash lights aren't lit up like a Christmas tree when you take it in for the annual. I'm somewhat handy, but seeing things like running wires across the firewall and splicing into stuff is sending me into freakout mode.