You guys kill me.
Almost everything on the different lists can be had by buying a Land Cruiser or a Lexus 460. What? Oh you don't want to spend anymore money than what a 4Runner, in it's current configuration, costs? So you guys want a V8 with all the bells and whistles and Toyota reliability and durability with no more additional cost? Wait, if you want all that stuff like Ford, Jeep and GM offer you just need to go buy those vehicles.
You can get:
Reliability and durability for $$$
or
Bling, bells and whistles for $$$
or
Reliability, durability, Bling, bells and whistles for $$$$$$$
Land Cruiser FTW.
If I could bring myself to drive something that costs $80K I would buy a new Land Cruiser. It is the ultimate SUV. Rode in a new one last week and they are really really nice with exceptional capability.
I never said I had any issue paying more money. I absolutely would. My max is $50k so my $40k Limited came in well under budget. Just a wish list. We can all dream can't we??