I drove a Gray '20 Pro yesterday new off the deliver truck at dealer. I was not looking to buy it (just curious to actually see the sensor and head unit in person) and only drove it because I was invited to by the sales person who sold me my '18 Pro so she could spend some time and learn the features as it was the first '20 Pro 4runner they received. After seeing it AND now driving it, I think it is WAY over hyped here and for me it affirms everything I've posted earlier in the thread about there being no basis for an owner of a recent year Pro (or even offroad) to ditch their rig in favor of a '20Pro.
Look at my very nice and artistic urban photo posing the MGM pro which looks way cool... but so does my '18 cavblue Pro and I bet your '18 offroad does too. If you're new to buy a 4runner OK maybe, but even then after driving it I'd say find a '19my cheaper or even a used '18. But if you already have one.... the minor changes are not in my opinion worth trading your rig in unless you are so enamored by the very cool looking Green color and have cash to burn which is sort of fickle.
After seeing the sensor in person - I still don't like it. it is not a "freaking' lunchbox" but it is IMHO a silly looking smooth glossy plate that interrupts the visage of the Pro grille and potentially limits the use of front end aftermarket equipment. Furthermore from my testing it's function on the drive... it doesn't seem to work super well in certain conditions which others who have purchased the rig have touched on.... so WHY? and Why no BSM if you're adding frontal safety? And why no indicator mirrors or puddles? The ride a bit more stiff (barely) on the fox setup compared to my '18 which I actually like. The exhaust "Note" if you want to call it that in my opinion is obnoxious and annoyed the shit out of me the whole drive... why have this groan especially when the rig is still gutless when the accelerator is challenged? We are buying a off road crawler here not trying out for the next fast and furious movie. I also don't like the look or idea of the tail pipe bent around the rear passenger mud flap waiting to be snagged on something on the trail.
The sound quality of the JBL audio system is just like I expected... better than the pre-'19 crappy OEM system but no where near as nice as mine after investing in something like OE Audio plus. The form factor of the larger brighter screen did not appeal to me. Even after I changed the theme to a darker shade it was still too much and really offered not much more compared to previous MY other than the smart phone integration which requires your phone be tethered by a cable. Anyone seeking to integrate this to a previous MY would be better served spending that money on aftermarket or upgrading the sound quality like I did. I prefer the large stereo controls and climate knobs on the pre-'20my (i.e. use with glove in the winter) to the smallish buttons around the head unit and dual climate.
The FJ-style roof rack on the '19 and '20 to me is a waste of vertical space. I know it may once again look cool and others may have special configuration use for it but if I tried to put my skybox on that it would be pretty silly.... and finally.... the almighty sunroof. The only reservation I had in buying my '18 CavBlue pro... Yes it is nice to have that bit openness and light from above but the portal is small as compared with ever increasing size of panorama roofs on newer rigs and the head space lost is a real thing. I would have noticed if I hadn't just driven an '18 pro for a year but you do lose space above your head and your rear seat passenger even more so which doesn't matter if they're little kids but to tall adults it might.
Frankly [MENTION=280386]TRDBuckeye[/MENTION] if you are going to fight the good fight to get your wife on board something, I would advise for her benefit that something to be literally getting her on board a cruise ship for a nice vacation with the money you save. Keep your '18 offroad buddy, it will go for a decade to come or more!
Cheers - JC