Can you guys explain why you want a 4runner? It seems as though highlander is much more of the type of vehicle you should drive based on your wishes. The only place you can tell the difference between 4hi and awd is city driving on dry roads. A highlander is much better at city or highway driving. It's awd. If you're not going to use the truck features - why would you want to accept all the downsides of having a body on frame SUV? Is it just the image?
There's plenty to like about upgrading to the limited. I'm not anti-awd. It's really neither here nor there for me. There's basically no meaningful difference other than being bothered to move the lever/dial once in a while. But if the awd system is the compelling factor - it would seem like you're looking at the wrong vehicle. The wrong class of vehicle too.
I have both, so I have a pretty good comparison between them. Have you considered a Highlander/Pilot/midsize crossover? The're pretty good at just about everything except utility work functions.
I chose to buy a 4Runner because I want a vehicle that is capable enough to handle reasonably rugged backcountry roads/tracks in the Colorado High Country, deserts over in Utah, etc. while also being a rock solid on-road snow vehicle in the winter. I want the load carrying capabilities, ability to easily upgrade suspension components to possibly install a minor lift in the future.
I want a vehicle I can put AT tires on and use to access remote trailheads for hiking, spring backcountry skiing and dispersed camping, and would like something that could form a base for a RTT. I'm not interested in modifying for any crazy rock crawling or "overlanding," but I want a vehicle that is more capable on rugged roads than an Outback.
However, I also want that vehicle to be a rock solid on-road vehicle in winter driving conditions. I'm an avid skier who is fond of taking road trips to chase storms when my schedule and budget allows. The TEP is fantastic when the roads are truly bad, but for long distance winter driving in mixed conditions, nothing will beat AWD.
The appeal of the Limited is that it offers full time 4WD/AWD with the additional capability that comes from being able to lock the center diff/use low range if needed.
Very pleased with my decision back in November to go with the Trail with KDSS. Moved from a Subaru Forester and have never looked back. I really liked the Subaru and AWD but wanted the extra weight and ground clearance. I'm not new to 4WD so know to slide it into 4H when the roads start to get slick. I wanted the Trail over the Limited as I wanted KDSS and the CRAWL features.
You can't do tight turns in 4wd like getting in and out of your garage or parking with the non Limited. It binds too bad. Unacceptable to me. Also my wife likes the bigger size and truck feel. She would even go bigger like Escalade etc. Maybe the next 4 Runner will be amazing with the safety features I want.
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I forgot just how handicapped a RWD vehicle is by the slightest loss of traction.
I accelerate like a grandpa, to the point where I rarely go a week without getting the "one finger salute" from someone pulling around to pass me as I leave a stoplight, and on wet pavement the traction control is clicking away like Flipper the Dolphin in the midst of a cocaine bender while the rear wheels get around to hooking up with the pavement.
My family has driven nothing but Audi Quattro's, Subaru's or Acuras with their SH-AWD since 1995, so it has literally been decades since I have experienced wheelspin on wet pavement, and that isn't something I wish to feel again.
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I just wish I had been able to drive both vehicles on slick roads, one trip around the block in those conditions and I never would have purchased a TEP.
I forgot just how handicapped a RWD vehicle is by the slightest loss of traction.
I accelerate like a grandpa, to the point where I rarely go a week without getting the "one finger salute" from someone pulling around to pass me as I leave a stoplight, and on wet pavement the traction control is clicking away like Flipper the Dolphin in the midst of a cocaine bender while the rear wheels get around to hooking up with the pavement.
My family has driven nothing but Audi Quattro's, Subaru's or Acuras with their SH-AWD since 1995, so it has literally been decades since I have experienced wheelspin on wet pavement, and that isn't something I wish to feel again.
In the interest of full disclosure, the 4Runner is the first vehicle I purchased entirely on my own, and a big part of why I'm beating myself up is that I was fully in the driver's seat and still made a huge mistake with the model I purchased. I didn't think it would be a problem given all the modern gizmos to help with traction, but after some real world driving experience with the vehicle, on 3 different sets of tires now, I can see that it is.
I bought the truck on NYE morning, and by midnight, I was regretting not going with the Limited. 1400 miles and three sets of tires later, I feel the exact same way. It's a gorgeous truck, and I would drive it almost anywhere DURING a snowstorm, but for the 3 or 4 days after when the roads are scattered with patches of ice, side streets may not be plowed, etc. it falls flat to the point that it will be sitting in the driveway while I take the bus to work. Those mixed conditions require you to make either a large sacrifice in traction for the sake of handling, or to make a big compromise in how the vehicle handles in order to not be a sitting duck every time you need to pull out into traffic.
I just wish I had been able to drive both vehicles on slick roads, one trip around the block in those conditions and I never would have purchased a TEP.
I forgot just how handicapped a RWD vehicle is by the slightest loss of traction.
I accelerate like a grandpa, to the point where I rarely go a week without getting the "one finger salute" from someone pulling around to pass me as I leave a stoplight, and on wet pavement the traction control is clicking away like Flipper the Dolphin in the midst of a cocaine bender while the rear wheels get around to hooking up with the pavement.
My family has driven nothing but Audi Quattro's, Subaru's or Acuras with their SH-AWD since 1995, so it has literally been decades since I have experienced wheelspin on wet pavement, and that isn't something I wish to feel again.
In the interest of full disclosure, the 4Runner is the first vehicle I purchased entirely on my own, and a big part of why I'm beating myself up is that I was fully in the driver's seat and still made a huge mistake with the model I purchased. I didn't think it would be a problem given all the modern gizmos to help with traction, but after some real world driving experience with the vehicle, on 3 different sets of tires now, I can see that it is.
I bought the truck on NYE morning, and by midnight, I was regretting not going with the Limited. 1400 miles and three sets of tires later, I feel the exact same way. It's a gorgeous truck, and I would drive it almost anywhere DURING a snowstorm, but for the 3 or 4 days after when the roads are scattered with patches of ice, side streets may not be plowed, etc. it falls flat to the point that it will be sitting in the driveway while I take the bus to work. Those mixed conditions require you to make either a large sacrifice in traction for the sake of handling, or to make a big compromise in how the vehicle handles in order to not be a sitting duck every time you need to pull out into traffic.
I just wish I had been able to drive both vehicles on slick roads, one trip around the block in those conditions and I never would have purchased a TEP.
I forgot just how handicapped a RWD vehicle is by the slightest loss of traction.
I accelerate like a grandpa, to the point where I rarely go a week without getting the "one finger salute" from someone pulling around to pass me as I leave a stoplight, and on wet pavement the traction control is clicking away like Flipper the Dolphin in the midst of a cocaine bender while the rear wheels get around to hooking up with the pavement.
My family has driven nothing but Audi Quattro's, Subaru's or Acuras with their SH-AWD since 1995, so it has literally been decades since I have experienced wheelspin on wet pavement, and that isn't something I wish to feel again.
In the interest of full disclosure, the 4Runner is the first vehicle I purchased entirely on my own, and a big part of why I'm beating myself up is that I was fully in the driver's seat and still made a huge mistake with the model I purchased. I didn't think it would be a problem given all the modern gizmos to help with traction, but after some real world driving experience with the vehicle, on 3 different sets of tires now, I can see that it is.
I bought the truck on NYE morning, and by midnight, I was regretting not going with the Limited. 1400 miles and three sets of tires later, I feel the exact same way. It's a gorgeous truck, and I would drive it almost anywhere DURING a snowstorm, but for the 3 or 4 days after when the roads are scattered with patches of ice, side streets may not be plowed, etc. it falls flat to the point that it will be sitting in the driveway while I take the bus to work. Those mixed conditions require you to make either a large sacrifice in traction for the sake of handling, or to make a big compromise in how the vehicle handles in order to not be a sitting duck every time you need to pull out into traffic.
Again, get what you want, but I would seriously test drive, test drive, test drive the Limited against other vehicles (Highlander, Pilot, etc) BEFORE you buy again. Why? Full time 4WD is NOT AWD and there are disadvantages to Full time 4WD too. Please read this 4WD or AWD? Know the Difference ? Gear Patrol before you go making another personal costly mistake.
One last piece of advice... Never buy a vehicle based on looks alone or what you THINK you are going to do with it.
Now, I live in an area where we get on average over 120" of snow annually, yet I drive in 2WD quite often! Even with 4" of snow on the highway! Why? Because 4WD does not do anything except help you accelerate in slick conditions! It does not help you stop. Full time 4WD will not help you go around corners like the Super Handling SH-AWD from Acura. Vehicle stability control in the 4Runner is what you have to keep you on the road. That's all, and it works well but it has nothing to do with 4WD, either part or full time.
I have two children, a daughter that is now 24 and a son that is 21. They both own AWD vehicles now. I taught them to drive in the snow in my wife's AWD. I won't let them drive my 4Runner because it is too different from their RAV4 and Subaru. The brakes are different. The accelerator pedal is different. The drivetrain is different. The handling is different. It's a different beast. Not bad, just different.
Good luck but it sure sounds like you want something that does not exist - A true off road ready BOF sport utility with all the advantages of AWD for the snow. Make sure you really read the link I posted above.