I just went back to an FJ. Got a great deal on one and found a willing buyer who gave me what I wanted out of my 4Runner and jumped on it. We already have a Pilot to haul the kids around, and it's just me most of the time in my vehicle driving to work and I realized how much I missed the FJ and how redundant the 4Runner was after having a Pilot. My preference was to sell the Pilot, but my wife typically drives it and she loves the car-like ride and felt it was a better vehicle for our needs since we sometimes use the third row and it has a DVD player for the kids.
I got the new Trail Teams and I don't think I'll look back from here. If I had spare cash I'd own a 4Runner AND an FJ and be one happy man. But I love the way this new TT handles and everything about it. I like it even more than my 2008 FJ due to some improvements like a rear camera in the rear view mirror for backing up, a bit stiffer suspension, more low end power and speed, better gas mileage, no stupid roof rack that I didn't want, and the comfort of the seats. For somebody with chronic back pain, this is a huge issue, and the 4Runner was designed for somebody shorter than I am and with a more narrow caboose. I'm 6'1" 220 and I don't think I am overly huge, but the 4Runner just is not that comfortable for me. I loved the drivetrain, the durability, the looks, the easy access to the back seat, the roll down window, and the excellent double decker cargo system. I hated the low headroom and the narrow seats. I guess the 4Runner was designed for shorter and skinnier people.
I love the new 4Runner also for lots of reasons, but I got most of the same features in my FJ for about $10,000 less off the lot so I'll live with the mini back doors, small back seat, less creature comforts, and no downhill assist. It has the rear locker, ATRAC, side curtain airbag disable, great ground clearance, BFG AT's, TRD wheels that look spiffy, rock rails, a fantastic Bilstein suspension, and the same V6 as the 4Runner, so I'm a happy man. I got a 4Runner junior with wider seats and more headroom. I am grateful that Toyota is still making a few viable options for offroaders in the 4Runner, FJ, and the Tacoma. Keep up the good work. If you can't find something that works for you in those three vehicles then you aren't trying hard enough!