Thanks. The Dobinsons look reasonable. I wasn't aware that they're lower end shocks (GS) are progressive.
I wonder if I could use my Eibach springs. They've got less than 15k miles on them.
dampening
There are three types of dampening Digressive, Linear, Progressive.
Most of the lower-mid range brands are Digressive which means they ride rough - Bilstein, Eibach, Toytech for example.
Personally, I think the Eibachs are straight garbage on a 4Runner. I don't think they tested them IRW conditions at all.