I'm somewhat piggybacking on this thread because I am too new here to create my own threads. Despite dozens of hours spent reading on here, it appears the system wants me to post more in order to show that I'm serious.
The title of this thread caught my eye because my concern can be labeled as "High mileage and suspension". And here is why.
I joined here in 2017 during the process of shopping for a 4R. I live in the middle of nowhere mountains of Vermont and there is only one somewhat reputable Toyota dealer within driving distance...anything beyond becomes a day trip. This is my dream, I worked my entire life to buy my land and build my house, I'm not native to the state, and it's exactly how I choose to live.
My family has a bunch of different vehicles for different functions. The 4R was slated to be something either me or my wife could use to get around or leave the property during muddy conditions, as well as take the family (two small children) on camping trips. Extended family owns land in some nice, very remote areas, and none of the vehicles we own are both comfortable enough for a long drive and capable of navigating those areas.
When I joined T4R, I planned to buy a brand new vehicle off the lot. We made an appointment at the dealer. I knew that I wanted one, but my wife absolutely hated the "stiff truckish" ride quality. Which is odd because she chooses to drive her M1009 (military Blazer) whenever the weather is nice. The only trim levels in stock were SR5 and Limited. We drove both, she hated them. We looked at the Certified Used lot and found some SR5s with under 20k miles or so, and she didn't like those as well. I began to search for TRD trims anywhere in New England, when my wife entirely shut down my efforts.
That was then, this is now. I am considering an older 5th gen. 4R to replace my relatively new but piece o' crap Ford Escape. I don't give a damn about the latest and greatest electronic toys, I want something that will do what I want and will last, and I'm sick of the Ford's limitations. The Escape is decent overall but the build quality isn't there, it can't take a beating (I'm breaking suspension and front end components), and the AWD doesn't do much in a true off road situation. Somehow I thought I could strike a balance between something not too large but capable, and life has led me back to the 4R.
So forgive me T4R nation, for I have sinned, but my ways have brought me back here! We recently bought a new family vehicle that we took out a short loan for, so I'm looking to pay cash for a 4R. I'm trying to keep it around $20k and seeing a lot of 2012-2013s with roughly 80-120k miles in that price area. This brings me to my question: would something that's not as new as I drove in 2017 perhaps have a different ride that my wife will approve of? Are there differences in suspension with 4R of that vintage, where I could shop for a specific package and hope that I find something she likes?