Well, she's gone.....
I let her go for $8250. I felt like that was fair for both parties, and I think the buyer is a car guy who will take good care of it, so it should last a LOOOONNNNNG time. My GF was laughing at me because I was "now don't forget at 150K you'll need to change ATF, oil, air filter, and plugs, and only use Denso or NGK plugs!" as the guy was getting ready to pull out.
My 7 year old literally had tears in her eyes and asked if she could get a 4runner just exactly like that one when she is old enough to drive.
Sad day, but at least it went to a car guy and it will be driven again instead of sitting idle.
I'll probably be back at some point. More kids will mean another SUV at some point, and it will be another 4runner. Probably have to get a newer one with the 3rd seat (I love the 3rd gens, but wish they had more seating) but after this one I can't imagine wanting anything else.