1. You can control the vent temp by adjusting the cabin temp. On a manual system you have a control to adjust the fan speed, direction/vents/location, and the temp of the air. You have all of the same controls in the 4Runner. There is a button for each fan speed, you have a button to select which vent/direction, and you can set the temp by pushing the up/down temp button (with the digital read out). They all can be set independently just like a completely manual system.
2. The reason the system changes to recirc is because you are telling the system to cool more but have lowered the fan speed.
The system decides that to achieve the desired (lower) temp with the slow fan speed it's probably defaulted to use only cabin air. This is a faster way to achieve cooler cabin temp in the summer. This is what I was talking about; you will get lower temp faster by cooling cabin air that has already been cooled compared to outside (warmer/hot summer) air.
I've never had to cool yet, since I got the truck in Feb. This weekend I will probably get the first chance to see how it works. This will give me better idea of how to set the heating /cooling controls to achieve the desired effect. As far heating, I like the way the system is designed to work.
Koz