Ok, I installed the jack in mine when I put my Kenwood in a year or so year ago, and it made no difference for the lighting, and I didn't have to do any special wiring to get it to work.
First off, the PAC doesn't supply voltage to the lighting circuits, as the steering wheel control illumination is still fully controllable by the rheostat on the dash. Granted, it looks like the ground is supplied through pin 10 at the steering wheel control (which is the white/red wire at the radio - pin 6).
How did you connect your SWI-Jack? You do need to make sure the SWI-Jack is wired up correctly though.
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The only wires you will be using from the PAC SWI-Jack are the red (power), black (ground), and white (to steering wheel control wires). Individually tape off the other wires so they don't touch each other or metal. They are not needed, and not used.
Make sure pin 6 is connected to the white wire from the SWI-Jack, and also make sure it gets grounded to a GOOD ground, verified by a multimeter.