So let's run down how a choice for the limited trim went for me.
Me: Let's get a Lexus ISF
Wife: ok, it has 4 doors, and in our budget
Me: Ok let us go for a test drive
Wife: WTF? NO way in hell are you getting an ISF. A rear facing baby seat will not fit unless I move my seat all the way forward. Try again. How about a Rav4 or a CRV?
Me: If you get one of those beige rolling dishwashers you can go and take care of the car yourself. Just like the POS Nissan Rouge we has in the past.
Wife: Fine, you pick them. It has to be a SUV
Me: Let's go test drive a 2014 4runner?
Wife

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Me: how did you like the 4runner?
Wife: I like it, but I want the limited trim
Me: What was wrong with the trail premium edition?
Wife: if was OK until I read through the brochure
Me: How about the TRD PRO that was just announced. It is perfect.
Wife: No F'n say you can get an orange truck.
Me:

Wife: I want smart key, auto headlights, butt cooling seats, auto climate control, dual climate control, leather
Me: Is the brown leather interior ok?
Wife: NO! White outside, black leather inside. And stop asking about the TRD PRO. Go and Mod the limited trim after the warranty runs out with new suspension and wheels.
In the end she was right. I think we would not enjoy our 4runner as much if it had been more hardcore (I.e. KDSS trail premium or TRD Pro).
Good luck!
However whenever I point out a Red or Blue exterior 4runner limited, she thinks those colors are nice. I wanted the blue or Red. She said white or we are going to get an Acura MDX.