Here's a link that still seems to work to the latest relay JJMI-12V that should work, this same link was posted above in post #55 by [MENTION=65557]VH2001[/MENTION] the OP of this topic, all credit goes to him and also to [MENTION=55475]jmelan[/MENTION] who found the updated relay part number!!
https://www.digikey.com/product-detail/en/panasonic-electric-works/JJM1-12V/255-2220-ND/648476
Thanks. I read that and assumed that last link was the one updated in the PDF, so my mistake.
I did end up ordering a CQ1 relay on eBay. Just had to travel here from Hong Kong now.