I drove it for the first time a couple of nights ago after dark with the headlights on, and i have never been flashed so much before in my life. So i took some time and adjusted the headlights down (something i should have done after installing the lift.) The light put is still bright just more focused on the ground where it should be, and not in the face of oncoming traffic.
Also the lights have been shutting off while idling down. I wiggled the connectors and they started working again. Then I inspected the terminals in my connector, they are very corroded. So at some point this weekend i will clean those up.