Well, all I can say is I've never seen the temps you're experiencing in my rig. I have done several mountain biking/camping trips in the summer heat (90-100 degrees), I'm loaded down with lots of gear driving up long mountain passes and the highest I've seen is 199. When I saw 199, yes, my trans temps were up pretty high as well.
So, seeing your coolant temps hitting 210-215 might be normal for you and others but it's not normal for my engine. If I wanted to hit 210, I'd just flip my thermostat jiggle valve to the 12 o'clock position and then I'm sure 210 would be normal for me as well.
If a new 3rd Gen owner told me they were running that hot, I'd suggest they start investigating some things like thermostat jiggle valve position, fan clutch operation, etc. Even if you're driving at a fast speed, I'd still think a tired fan clutch not locking up could be the culprit of seeing higher coolant temps. When the fan clutch is bad, it will not be matching the speed of the engine and thus it will pull less air through the cooling fins of the radiator.
Anyway, if you're comfortable with the coolant temps you're seeing, that's all that matters.