Yes Sir OEM all the way!
The grease is Valvoline
If someone is interested
Seal 90310-50006 ($5.50)
Bearing 90363-40020 ($53)
Retainer 42423-20010 ($9 each)
C-clip 90520-36045 ($1)
O-ring 90301-88077 ($2.50)
[Didn't install but the ABS ring is 43517-35010 $27]
I test drove the truck: The straighten up ABS ring is functional..
If an aftermarket retainer [especially TIMKEN (embossed)] is installed, before removing the ABS ring, grind the retainer. The OEM has nothing embossed.
The other side is good and no play in the oem bearing (214K miles): Should I replace that or leave it alone until it leaks? I don't want to experience a faulty bearing in the bad way.
Thanks guys!!