OK, ill go the other way.
i used mine maybe once a month these days. when i bought my '14 new, i used it maybe 2-3 times a month as we usually have a cousin or friend coming along with my own two kids. Add to that my youngest used to love riding back there per his preference. he would consider it his own row. on road trips especially, one kid in the 2nd row, one in the 3rd, and everybody was happy. since my son is now my size, 5-8, he rides back there less, but still, its not meant to be a perm 3rd row like say a Sequoia is. I say to myself, if we did have a 3rd/4th kid, then that's what we would have purchased. But knowing with our two, we would occasionally be needing that extra set of seats multiple times a year, then the 3rd row was a solid choice for when its needed for this mild-off roading dad.
I'd rather have it and only need it here and there, then to not have it and have ppl all squished up behind me.
If i were to ever upgrade, it would be a 200 series LC, with its third row...so there