Too many tire choices.....

[SeanWN86]

35 psi COLD, and it feels squishy and unsettling.

Anything above that and it gets even worse. Plus then I feel everything.

Plan to remove my TC UCA, and lca/poly, with oem arms and see if that changes anything. Hopefully before Christmas.

Yeah, after that long on a dirt road I'd expect to see more dust/dirt on the shoulders of the tire. That looks like it doesn't quite have a full contact patch. What pressure are you running on the front and rear?