The return hose doesn't have suction. The fluid is moved through the system via the positive pressure of the transmission fluid pump. You drop the return hose into a bucket to drain the fluid out. You fill via the dipstick tube. You start the engine, drain a quart out, stop the engine. Add a quart via the dipstick tube and repeat the process until you've reached at least 12 quarts. The capacity of our automatic transmissions is around 12 quarts. If the fluid still looks a little dirty to you, keep going until it looks like new fluid is coming out of the return line. Check the level and add if necessary to bring the level to the top of the cold level reading. Take it for a drive and get the trans to operating temperature. Recheck the level and make sure you are in the hot range.
What many of us have learned with our rigs is the cold level reading just gets you into the ballpark. Make sure you take it for a decent drive, at least around 10 miles, to get it into the normal operating temperature range. If I remember correctly, the range is somewhere between 155-175. If you have a Scan Gauge or use Torque Pro, there's no guesswork what temp you're at. If you don't, you'll just have to be sure you drove long enough to get the trans temp up there. Now recheck the level and top it off to the upper hot range level on the dipstick.
[MENTION=102606]infamousRNR[/MENTION] and I made a video of this process. Good luck!