"Recommend" is a relative term depending on what you're wanting out of your lift, especially with regard to extra weight on the front or rear. Mike is obviously a great resource for his stuff, and there are tons of people willing to chime in with help on specific questions on other options like the Toytec kit.
Keep in mind that the Bilstein suspension on the stock TRDP has the front sitting 1" higher than other trims, the rear is the same for all trims. The Dobinson's coil lift will get you another 1" over that (2" total lift) in the front. The Toytec spacer lift will get you an additional 2" lift (3" total lift) in the front, but you're losing a bit of overall wheel travel because spacers achieve lift by compressing the springs (called "preload"). This also stiffens the ride up a bit because the spring is essentially being forced into operating at a higher rate than normal.
It's not a dumb question, lifts are a little confusing once you really delve into them. Mike listed the Dobinsons options for the rears a few posts down from his initial one here:
http://www.toyota-4runner.org/5th-gen-t4rs/238640-trd-pro-4runner-lifted-coil-options-dobinsons.html. There is also still the 1.5" SAW / Wheeler's coils and many others.
I hope this helps. Now your brain is probably REALLY swimming. Good luck.