I've had the TRD Pro Toytec lift on since November 2015, and still going strong, no problems...
I would really like the front up another 1/2 inch or so, but when it's loaded up, it's perfect.
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I agree with you, unloaded on mine it looks butt high, once I have gear and people inside I'm leveled out. the only exception is when I hook up my boat then it sags in the rear.