Urgent help!!!!

[shootmymime]

so its my 6th month anniversary tomorrow and idk wtf to get her / do with her.

she booked a 1 hour couples massage (which i love them (no homo)) but idk what i should do for her or get her? little help here?

 

[SV_Dude]

Bring her some of her favorite flowers and cook her a nice dinner. Pamper her and show her that you care. It's better than any store bought gift because it requires thought and effort... girls like that stuff... I think.

 

[ajonesnv]

Dude, you loose if tomorrow is the anni! This question should have been asked 4 days ago.

 

[slowpoke99]

Bring her some of her favorite flowers and cook her a nice dinner. Pamper her and show her that you care. It's better than any store bought gift because it requires thought and effort... girls like that stuff... I think.

that's the route i'd take. my wife digs that kind of stuff! that's when i tell her i need stuff for the rig. works (almost) everytime!!! :kiss:

 

[Quatre Coureur]

U can't go wrong with jewelry.

Btw, does the massage include a happy ending? :embarassed:

 

[zacattack20]

6 month? Not even a year. You're in trouble already if you're having to be celebrating that. Haha

 

[MyHigh]

:snacker:

 

[SV_Dude]

6 month? Not even a year. You're in trouble already if you're having to be celebrating that. Haha

:whip:

 

[ndcent]

If massages are "homo" I'm gayer than a three dollar bill.

 

[shootmymime]

Bring her some of her favorite flowers and cook her a nice dinner. Pamper her and show her that you care. It's better than any store bought gift because it requires thought and effort... girls like that stuff... I think.

you think? YOU THINK? we are doomed! thanks tho.

Dude, you loose if tomorrow is the anni! This question should have been asked 4 days ago.

yeah posted it when i thought about asking....

U can't go wrong with jewelry.

Btw, does the massage include a happy ending? :embarassed:

:first:

6 month? Not even a year. You're in trouble already if you're having to be celebrating that. Haha

i know i know, thats what im thinking!

If massages are "homo" I'm gayer than a three dollar bill.

you guys are awesome! always in for a good crack up.

im cleaning the whole house! shes not a big fan of flowers. she likes big rocks but seriously, i just dropped all my money on her finger, dude needs time to recoup some funds b4 he drops another rock on her...


lets just see how it all goes! :juggle:

 

[MyHigh]

There you go, clean the place I don't know of any lady that wouldn't like it. While your at it light a few candles get some rose petals lay them about, and forget the dinner, just get some wine and chocolate covered strawberries. Sit back and let the magic happen.

Good luck man
Have fun!

 

[BlackWorksInc]

Macaroni Art? It worked for Mom... in grade school... :hiding:

Maybe you'll get a C for effort?

But seriously, something from the heart and not some cheap nick-knack you bought at last minute because "it reminded me of you!" Do/buy/make something meaningful that shows how much you love and appreciate that she wants to spend her life with you.

It could be something as simple as a nice home cooked meal with romantic overtures or a spontaneous trip to a tropical resort. Do what you feel you would both love and would symbolize your love and commitment for each other.

Or just get jewelry, its always a good failsafe for most women; you can even make some sob story up about it being the colour of her eyes or that the diamond sparkles like her dimples or whatever lame line you can think up.

 

[shootmymime]

This is where I check out for the night waiting for her to get home from work..... Here we go!!

 

[slowpoke99]

Ok now it just looks like you got some cult sh** going on. Like you're about to sacrifice an animal or something! Just kidding!!!

Good luck and enjoy!!!

 

[Doc2012]

U can't go wrong with jewelry.

Btw, does the massage include a happy ending? :embarassed:

Yes you can.

I bought my gf a ring for her birthday, a very nice, expensive claddagh ring, and she got pissed because it wasn't an engagement ring.

Funny thing is, we had a convo about it two or three days before that, and both agreed that it wasn't the right time to do anything like that......

Damn women. Ya can't kill 'em, and......where'd my beer go?

 

[KidVermicious]

This is where I check out for the night waiting for her to get home from work..... Here we go!!

You're so .

You're pulling out all the stops at six months, what the hell are you going to do for a five or ten year anniversary? Brother, you have to keep expectations low, or you're in for a long long relationship.

 

[1engineer]

girls like that stuff... I think.

No. Girls like that stuff if they think you thought of it and planned but decided to buy an expensive gift instead but then went back to the original idea but then went for the second way for fear of not making her happy because the first way was thought to be too nice.

Seriously, from a guy that has been married 30 years now:
Diamonds or nothing. No matter what you do it will be wrong - or right - or both - or neither. Buy her a diamond and hope for the best - or don't buy her anything and hope for the best. Your chances of making her happy or mad are equal. Trust me, I have data to prove it.
BTW the diamond thing only works if she gets to pick it out.

My wife is just as happy - or not - with a gift or without. Same goes for cards too. Pick at random! If you try to think about it she will know! Good luck - or not...winning the lottery is easier. I love my wife and sometimes she likes me and sometimes she does not. I still have no idea what works. Oh, I have a 22 yo daughter too that is following the same pattern with her fiance who asked me these questions also. It's like the 3 Laws of Thermodynamics. Everybody tries but nobody truly understands..

 

[SV_Dude]

No. Girls like that stuff if they think you thought of it and planned but decided to buy an expensive gift instead but then went back to the original idea but then went for the second way for fear of not making her happy because the first way was thought to be too nice.

Seriously, from a guy that has been married 30 years now:
Diamonds or nothing. No matter what you do it will be wrong - or right - or both - or neither. Buy her a diamond and hope for the best - or don't buy her anything and hope for the best. Your chances of making her happy or mad are equal. Trust me, I have data to prove it.
BTW the diamond thing only works if she gets to pick it out.

My wife is just as happy - or not - with a gift or without. Same goes for cards too. Pick at random! If you try to think about it she will know! Good luck - or not...winning the lottery is easier. I love my wife and sometimes she likes me and sometimes she does not. I still have no idea what works. Oh, I have a 22 yo daughter too that is following the same pattern with her fiance who asked me these questions also. It's like the 3 Laws of Thermodynamics. Everybody tries but nobody truly understands..

Diamonds or nothing? You walk an expensive and scary path! I'll buy my wife shiny stuff but only for certain occasions. Most of the time she gets a nice dinner and some sweet lies about how much I care and how nice of a guy I am.

I'm with KidV, you gotta keep the expectations low. Always remind her where the door is but you also have to remind her that she will never find someone who will put up with her bs like you do. That way when you do something nice she really appreciates it. Then when she gets the rare diamond she REALLY appreciates it.



All jokes aside, how did dinner go? Was I right or did she expect diamonds or other shiny things?

 

[Ark03]

Yikes, my 10 year is coming up later this month. I've got no idea what I'm doing for my bride. :target:

 

[SV_Dude]

Yikes, my 10 year is coming up later this month. I've got no idea what I'm doing for my bride. :target:

Better start smacking her around now so she doesn't get false hope of getting something good.