Gold Dot 9mm for my carry gun, the cheap ish for everything else. Shoot my Ak the most, and I just buy the cheapest crap I can find for that. I think the most recent case I got was Wolf or Tulammo.
Just ordered some of the Lehigh Defense .380 65gr Extreme Defense ammo. The ballistic gel testing is constantly good. Reality is for handgun....a big long hole is the best your going to get. Exactly why the guys hunting things that will kill you use sharp edged heavy for caliber non-deforming bullets.