I am new to this forum as well and Am surprised at the attitude of some people. I have been part of other forums in the past like FJBruisers And another a Tundra forum for my past vehicles, and with a VERY few exceptions, There was not much attitude thrown around especially to new members.
If you have nothing positive to add, then move on to the next post.....or leave the site all together. There is way to much attitude in this world and for you to feel you need to lash out at someone that just is looking for a little advice,no matter how insignificant you may feel it is, is saying something about you as a person. Of coarse I am expecting some smart comment back and testimonial of how you don't care what others think, I think the monitor of this site should exercise some control and block you from posting if this is how you are going to act.
I don't mean to be a jerk either and hate dealing with people like that. Just post what you did first and why and move on, or again, DON'T POST ANYTHING AT ALL.
Now to answer the question...........as with any rig, you need to look at how you are going to use it and what its stock setup limitations are.
I plan on a lift first so I can make room for a little bit bigger tire, and new rails for the side for protection. If you are just looking for road travel and not off road go with some cosmetic stuff you like. It is up to you on how you will use it.