SR5 4X4 V-6! I too, really wanted a sport edition but unlike many here, I could NOT find a V-6 SE 4X4 with a moonroof here in So. Califunky when I was searching. I went with the SR5 instead of the only nonroof 4X4 titanium (yucky color) SE model I could find locally. My 4Runner also came in the best color (at that time) Galatica Gray in my opinion. Though now, I believe the Salsa Red in hands down the best color for the 4Runner.
In retrospect, none of the above really bothers me EXCEPT for the fact that now the 2005 V-6 models have the 5 spd tranny instead of the 4spd as my '04 does. I'm still pissed that Toyota didn't use the 5spd tranny in all models during the '04 year. The V-6's hp and torque definitely called for it from the onset.
The SR5 model is by far the most popular selling model of the Runner. It just appears that most fans of forums seems to be limited and sport edition owners. My Runner has the SE rims and rear spoiler kit thus it mimics the SE model from the outside rear and side views. Besides, with the '05 SE now being the only model with the middle of both bumpers painted titamium and the roof rack switching to black, then a 4Runner fan will have to pass me just to see if I am driving the SE or not. I like the suspense I place on the rear approaching driver!