Most of the time, unless you have some earth shattering contribution, you will get a lot of sarcastic posts. Just gotta roll with the punches.
You don't have much of an option if you want to keep XREAS. Keeping the wheels or getting new ones generally wouldn't make a difference.
Here is a thread where I asked the same bit of information
http://www.toyota-4runner.org/5th-gen-t4rs/122146-lift-leveling-kit-w-xreas.html
Basically your only option is suspension spacers which will serve mostly for looks and some added clearance. The bad part is if you do any kind of bumpy roads or off road, I hear it's pretty horrific ride.
Good luck!