I got a 03' SE V8 back in 2006 with only 16k on it, and i cant complain about 1 thing on the rig. Even though it did have the frozen front calipers, the fan resistor went and the tranny needs to be flushed (unsealed), i dont care. I kept up with the maintenance and its running like a champ. I love the textured grey bumpers & side cladding and the sport bumper trim on the front.
My 08' has the VVTI V8 and it has more pep, but it also has less leg room (power seat vs the 03's non-power...has more room), the 08 has the pipe step bar and roof rack, and i like the 03's step a bit more, only because (1) when its covered in slop after a drive, i have to make for damn sure my pants dont hit it on the way out of the ride. The step on the 03 is tucked back a bit more, i dont have to sweat that, and (2) when going down the highway in the 08 with the pipe, it sounds like someone's spraying an empty tube with a gardenhose...that hollow-metal sound, and the trim isnt as protected as it is on the 08.
Either way, i love both these 4Runners.