You said what I meant, just differently (I think). For every compression of the suspension, the spring will be longer (less compressed) on the 4Runner, because of the lower weight. I assume that would mean that the spring/shock combo on a 4Runner would be operating in a range that is longer than the range used on a LC. Maybe my point is irrelevant

Both can bottom-out and both can "top-out". I was thinking that a shock with a longer fully-extended length would be useful for the 4Runner, and it would be less likely to bottom-out the same shock. Maybe I should stop "thinking out loud and then typing it"
Essentially, the bump stops should limit compressed travel (hopefully before the shock bottoms out). What stops the droop travel? Is it just the shock hitting its top-travel? I know some suspension setups use limiter straps. Regarding ours... If my 4Runner rear is suspended from something other than wheels/axle/suspension, so the wheels can fall freely, what stops them at their maximum droop?