Wow... I posted this message a couple days ago and expected a couple responses... nothing like what's been posted. Thanks to all for your thoughtful responses.
We're (most likely) going with a Chicco KeyFit 30 infant car seat, and then we'll upgrade to something different when she's bigger. The plan is to put her behind the passenger seat using the latches provided at the bottom of the back rest on that seat.
I guess I wasn't clear that I didn't want to modify anything... the thought had popped into my mind, but it wasn't a route I was planning on taking. I was just curious if anyone had experience with a center position car seat AND the 40% side down. Looks like it's doable, but sketchy... DEFINITELY not worth any risk that it would place our daughter in.
Put the kid on one side, yes the center is safest, but when you have your second it becomes irrelevant anyway. If not, go with the seatbelt option.
Otherwise go buy the minivan now. :sorry:
We're only planning on one kiddo (our age may limit the possibility of more... honestly, this kiddo is kind of a miracle baby!). So for now, the minivan is out. Thank Goodness!
hey Joel!
I occasionally drive 4 or 5 hounds for a couple hours for my adoption group.
You might consider muzzling them and putting them in the far back for a bit until they're used to being on top of one another. I have a female that's not in to cuddling at all. Most of my foster dogs learn this the hard way.
I actually had one of my greyhounds crash right through the center seat a couple of weeks ago in a panic stop situation. The seats were up, and she came sailing right through the middle one. Luckily no injuries. Even though she doesn't try to get over the seat, I'm considering a barrier for their safety now.
Sending you a PM.
unless it is a rear facing and only carseat. then it goes in the middle. But yes the driver side is the safest because the driver naturally turns away from impact.
I hadn't thought of that... natural instinct of the driver (if possible) WOULD be to turn away from the crash. I'll definitely give this some thought. Thanks!
Go to a fire station or hospital (whoever installs child seats in your area) and let them install if you are using a lap belt. The lap belt is just as secure IF installed correctly. The latch is easier to install correctly and quicker.
This was my plan... actually planned on trying it myself and then having them double check. (We learned that one of the local hospitals can't actually check the carseat for you due to liability. They can verify that you have a carseat IN your car, but they can't check it for proper latching to due liability issues. SERIOUSLY!?!?)
She added a mirror to the headrests of the back seat so she can see their faces from the driver's seat. She can see if they're sleeping or if either one is having a melt-down. She can do some things at a stop light but if either child needs anything, she stops the car and gets out.
We've seen these and debated them. Thanks for the recommendation.
The 4Runner does as well in side impact safety as any car on the road. Add rock rails and a lift for more protection.
I've talked to my wife about whether she'll need a step up to help latch our daughter in. She's ASSURES me that she'll be fine... but I'm pretty sure I'll have to put back the factory running boards. Then, when she sees how "urban runner" it makes our 4Runner look, I'm pretty sure I'll get the go-ahead for sliders. Right now, every dollar we've got coming in is being allocated towards our daughter and a hopeful upgrade in house.
Please reconsider your priorities. You are worried about the difference of a side impact caused by seat position but think that 165#s of unrestrained live cargo is not going to be a problem? ... This is not something you should be considering. :crazy:
I am, of course, most concerned about our daughter's safety. There is no way that I will place her in harm's way. Period. I was simply looking to see if anyone has done something like this (60/40 split, center mount) before, or if anyone had better thoughts/options. I know that there are parents out there that are more concerned about their pets, their car, their cell phones, their fingernails, or whatever it might be than their child. Trust me... this isn't us. I'm simply trying to gain some knowledge from the other users of this board.
Again, thanks to all for your thoughtful advice. That's why I love this board!
-Joel