You're having a heavy buyer's remorse, man. Without sounding like a ****, welcome to upgrading a stock vehicle. I totally get your frustration. Some of the best advice I ever read online said something to the effect of "understand that every single thing you do carries with it both pros and cons" and that applies to lighting as much as it does to suspension, armor, anything. There is also the fact that as soon as people spend money, they tend to climb online and tell everyone how great it is. There are a lot of honest reviews on LEDs in the stock LB projectors around the 5th Gen forum, including mine linked on the LED section of this thread.
FWIW, outside of HIDs or LEDs in their appropriate projector, there isn't a headlight bulb made that won't wash out in most ambient lighting scenarios like city driving. Higher Kelvin temps universally glare in inclement weather- this is why effective fog lights in race trucks are yellow. Respectfully, if your headlights are washed out and you're feeling dangerous with the stock low beams, I think you should be making an honest appraisal of your vision and driving.
You mentioned fitting an HID kit into the stock projectors, but that carries with it some pretty major cons as well, both for you (drilling, aiming lower) as well as the people you're driving at. As was posted to you in the other thread, you should be aware that the only true incredible upgrade to the low beams is a HID or LED projector retrofit. Even then it's still very possible to blind people oncoming (hills) because the 4R lights are so much higher-mounted than your typical Acura or other stock HID passenger car. Pros and cons, brother.
In any case, thanks for posting here so that someone else may not have to make the same mistake. Cheers.