Ok, Now to explain everything.
I have my Neon tubes running off my accessory, so they stay on when the truck is on. I have ran it off the parking lights before.
The reason why you need a relay to run LED's or Neons is because it's a negative trigger system
A negative trigger system is different from a normal circuit that you usually are used to.
I think I explained it before,
A normal system is let's say your parking lights, You give it 12 volts, the parking lights turn on. However now it's the total opposite in a negative trigger system.
What happens in the negative trigger system. When the parking lights are off, the wire has 12 volts, or is hot. When the parking lights are turned on, the wire loses 12 volts. IT's a negative trigger.
The photo I included is showing where the black plug can be found. It is that plug right next to the fuses. You should be able to find the door trigger there.
I'm gonna include a diagram of how the negative trigger wiring should work in my next post