it's in!
Ok the seat is in!
I had a local shop execute my plan...replace wiring harness, and switch assembly. I do not think this would be required if you had a 4runner with memory seats...but I'm just guessing.
PRO
1)it just feels right! excellent seating position. Feels more like a dining room chair.
2)everything works, heat, seat positioning, seat belt warning.
3)NO SRS codes, but I'll never be sure if that side airbag will work or not.
4)it's minor impacts, so I could switch the seats back again. The minor part was cutting the the wires that run internal in the seat in order to avoid fully disassembling the seat.
CON
5)slight mismatch in colour, it's a darker gray.
6)armrest needed to be removed and shows a "hole" in the side of the seat.
7)at the lowest height setting, it's still higher than the oem. Maybe .5-1 inch, not sure, but that's a huge deal in an suv with already compromised headroom. I'm 6ft, and my hair touches the liner. I'm not sure if I will be able to deal with this...If you are shorter than 6ft this seat swap is a great thing. If not, or if your right on the edge, basically throw a 1" cushion under you and decide if you are still comfy.
To deal with 8 I might see if I can lower the rails to bring the seat down a bit. Again, we are only talking about 1/2 or 1 inch maybe. IF not, and if I am still not happy, then I'll just steal the lumbar motor and put it back into the oem.
It was interesting to try, and I'm almost at my budget for this, so hopefully I can get used to the height or lower it a little and keep under budget (budget being the cost of the part new + install).
UPDATE #1:
-the height is an issue. But I'm going to make 1 more effort to get this to work. It is possible that I could lower this seat based on the space I see under the rails. I think it is worth it because the comfort (ignoring the proximity to the headliner) is a big step up. I had a long day yesterday, and was driving home at 9pm. It was so comfy and "perfect" I actually chuckled a little bit. The positioning is different, and much better. Of course, the relationship will change if lowered, so I'll need to re-eval. As it stands, if I cannot lower it, it will 80% probably come back out, and I'll go "worst case" with the oem seat and the gx lumbar motor.
J