Just rolled 171,000 miles today. Front locker and 4.56 gears were installed at 90,481 miles. Still on original CVs, axles, TREs, etc.
It seems CVs usually tend to let go when a wheel gets spinning to high RPMs and then suddenly finds traction. I think the locker helps prevent that situation by making the wheels turn at the same speed. The ARB carrier is stronger than stock, but I'm sure you could still do some catastrophic damage to the aluminum clamshell if you try hard enough.
If your wheels are anything other than straight, it puts major strain on the steering rack and that is really my greatest concern when using the front locker.
I think if you are doing gears anyway, you might as well go all in and do the locker at the same time. If not doing gears, I probably wouldn't bother with the front locker. All of the places it has made a worthwhile difference have been avoidable obstacles on harder trails. Even with the front locker I have had to winch, hilift and rockstack, or dig my way out of several stucks.