Wow that did just happen my long post reset by my safari crashng, shit. Short story. lets post data and let the OP decide. There are many ways to wire this up not just one particular way each has its own merits. The OP was asking how to with the Highpbeam Neg tirgger Iposted two different ways to do so. Relays normal 12V relays such as would work in this manner are under 30amp specialty relays are 100 times more expensive and not used like this. The inflection I am getting makes me instead of being cordial want to post the attached as before I had a long drawn out explaination i doth not want to repeat.
Honestly, my tone is the result of my belief that your posts are not being helpful to the OP. Specifically, you rejected the idea that a single relay would work in his application. If you hadn't said that, I would have just ignored your posts as mainly irrelevant to the case at hand.
I don think I was totally clear you do need two relays. one to power the switch the negative relay. one that the switch triggers for the lights the switch controls. two relays. A regular switch does not need the neg relay to power the switch as you usually get it from a ignition or constant power source.
I am the first to say there are many ways to skin electrical cats. I never said what you propose would not work. You said what I propose would not work, without providing any coherent explanation of why. So yes, my tone was curt. I am sorry for that, but so far your tone has been arrogant, without the quality of post, or even decent grammar, to back it up. You really don't need to direct me to 12volt.com to see how to wire a relay, and you would know that if you were familiar with my many electrical posts on this board. You suggest I don't know the difference between wattage and amperage, but I'm the one whose tone is objectionable? Lamps are rated in watts, not amps, so that is why I chose that unit. On a 12V system, once watts are known, the amperage is, too. But fine, we will let the OP make his own decisions.
I'll even post a diagram, if he will:
a) post specs of the aux. lights to be powered, or a model number.
b) state exactly how the lights are to behave--on only with highs, 3-position switch to control, off, on with highs only, on with key on, or whatever he wants.
c) confirm whether or not he has DRL's--year of 4Runner would be nice, too.
You are welcome to do the same, with as many relays as you want.
I am sorry for your TBI--I know a former oncologist with TBI who can't remember he took a leak 5 minutes ago. So you're doing pretty well. Still, I feel an obligation to try to provide good, clear information to posters on this forum. Your posts are quite difficult to follow, and I am familiar with the material. Imagine an electrical neophyte.
I thought your image attachment was cute.