"Prepare to cry"? Give me a break. If your appreciation for things automotive is limited to bolting on a lift and plasti-dipping the shit out of your 4Runner, then you're only doing yourself a disservice. This lifted vs. lowered debate is high school parking lot BS. I'd be willing to bet that the owner/builder of that Runner could school 90% of the guys on this board, myself included, in metal fab, suspension engineering, and all manner of vehicle "customization".
Do yourselves a favor and broaden your spectrum a bit. I've got friends that I've body-dropped trucks with and swapped axles with, wired stereos and wired offroad lights, and hacked body panels to clear both 20s and 37s. And I've learned a hell of a lot more than I would have if I let things that are different make me angry, outraged, or want to throw something.