Get used to it. Everyone on the internet pays less, gets better MPG, makes more HP and has a hotter wifey/girlfriend than you.
That's why I stopped looking at this thread. To begin with, we're not all speaking the same language with the numbers. Some people are showing their net price after a trade-in, some are not counting dealer doc fees which are pure profit! Of course a dealer will give you another 1K off the "sales" price when they are sticking an $1100 dealer doc fee on the vehicle. Yes, they are that high in some states. Some people are simply lying.
For me, I special ordered* a 2020 TRD ORP (KDSS but no Sunroof, which is a unicorn) with an MSRP of $44530. I got a 7% discount of MSRP for a "sales price" of 41,538.92. But tags, taxes, and the $899 dealer doc fee brings me up to 45,499.99 Out the Door. No trade. The whole ordering process and negotiation took 5 minutes via text and about 15 minutes at the dealership. I texted him my specifications and offer of 45,000 OTD, they said some on in and we'll talk. When I got there they countered 46,000 OTD, after 15 minutes we met a penny on my side in the middle. I'm happy. They're happy. We all win.
Could I have gotten a better deal? Maybe. Off an in-stock model, probably. However, every dealer I talked to about special order* started at MSRP and some wouldn't budge.
* Special Order (or whatever you call it with Toyota, I know it's not really a factory order, you're just putting in a reservation for one with specific options as it comes off the factory floor)