So i took my new starter back out and bench tested it. Works perfect. Engages and rotates like it should. Ok, so my new starter is still new and works. O took it back down to me car and bench tested it there too. Sat it on the fuse box, powered it, groundednit, and applied 12 volts to the trigger and it works again!!!!....so what was my problem? Theres an upper and lower ground on the third gens that i never realized when i re did all my wiring with the 4 guage red stuff. Put a ground just above the oil pan on the drivers side and bolted it to the fram, BINGO!!!!! But im still having a big of problems. I dont think stuff is grounding out. When i turn my signals on, my abs light dims. And the radio cycles on and off. So im not completely done, but she drives again!!!!! Also, just t add, i LOVE not having a sway bar! It flexes when i drive over a pebel lol. But thats everyone for the help. Very appreciated.