Your complaints about the noise, stink, sound are entirely subjective...some people find those aspects of diesel ownership annoying, others don't.
As for diesel becoming a fringe element in the US car industry, I think you've been ignoring the reality of what has been happening over the last decade or so. The # of diesel cars being sold/driven (commercially and privately) has definitely gone up because of all the advantages I previously listed.
The Nitrous Oxide emission is the one thing keeping diesels back at the moment...the many car companies seem to be putting a lot effort and $ into resolving that issue.
As for your question, I did answer it...I said I wasn't going to start a dick measuring contest by claiming to have more diesel ownership experience than you. Why? Because this is the freaking internet and no one cares about your "claimed" experience. I have owned/driven diesel vehicles. Enough said....
Well that's your take on the subject...there are a lot of people who prefer diesels for towing because they want a reliable and efficient engine.