Wow. First, the '98's were definitely flange type sensors so your exhaust has been redone--maybe upsized from stock when they did the S/C. Is this the upstream sensor (bank 1 sensor 1) or downstream (bank 1 sensor 2)?
Also, Cali. and Federal exhaust emissions setups were the same in '98, only evaporative emissions were tougher in Cali., so that is not an issue. The plug on your old one looks like nothing I have seen before on a 4Runner. All 4Runner sensors I have seen have only four wires, not five. How many wires on the harness side and what are the colors? Were they spliced upstream from the harness plug?
I am thinking that a new threaded-type exhaust bung was installed on your rig. Some non-Toyota o2 sensor was installed in that bung and a new harness plug was spliced into the original wiring. That sensor of yours could come from anything.
My only suggestion is that maybe a universal downstream O2 sensor for an '01-'02 might work. The upstream sensors for those years are wideband A/F sensors and will not work with a '98 system. But the downstream sensors should work in both the upstream and downstream positions on a '98 if you can decode the wiring colors by looking at the harness upstream from the
connector. Since you will be splicing on to your old sensor plug, you will have no trouble matching the length.
That would be a Denso 234-4209. It looks like this:
I think that is as close as you will come in a Toyota sensor, but it is still a different tip than yours.
Amazon.com: Denso 234-4209 Universal Oxygen Sensor (Air and Fuel Ratio Sensor): Automotive
Your sensor looks like this Bosch that fits a 2002:
I am really guessing here, but that sensor just doesn't belong on your truck. I have no way of knowing if the '02 4Runner threaded sensor is compatible with the threaded bung on your truck. But if it isn't, the only other thing I can think of is to take your old one down to NAPA or other FLAPS (Friendly Local Auto Parts Store) and find somebody over thirty who will try to match it for you. The under-thirties will just stare at you and ask "What's it for?" with their fingers on the keyboard (in my experience, anyway).
When you said single O2 model did you mean single cat? Because all '98's, indeed all third gens have two O2 sensors, before and after the cat or cats. Unless you have a non-US build. As far as I know, all OBDII compliant vehicles have 2 sensors and all US 3G 4Runners are OBDII.