I'm on a stock 99 sr5, original owner, only 107k miles (mom just used it to shuttle me to school growing up, now its mine

), so it sits 1 inch higher than others.
i dont plan on taking it wheeling, its a DD plus camping/snow car. will not take it offroading, only towing/hauling when I move places, so I don't need those capabilities.
Trying to decide between 880/906, which would almost give me no lift
or if the 881/890 would give me a nicer lift aesthetically, but potentially more wear (CV axle)/worse mileage
I will be running these with either the bilstein 5100s or OME nitrochargers
I understand this has been debated to death, but I really can't decide.
all comments/criticisms welcome.
my priority is to make this car last as long as possible as well as comfort. not sure if the CV axle wear and tear is overblown as long as i stay on highways, but its just freaking me out (especially because my friend snapped his CV axles on his tacoma wheeling). but once again, I really would like a noticeable lift